Gender Harmony is not about
becoming like the opposite gender.
It is about, first, becoming comfortable
within your own gender and feeling
comfortable in relating to the outside world.
Second, it is about understanding
the opposite gender with respect
and unconditional love.
There is much on the earth plane that
talks about getting in touch with Self,
to the exclusion of the impact Self has on others ~
other humans and others who are part of
the totality or the Circle of Community.
Before you can fully and accurately
claim that you are in control of Self,
you must acknowledge the interconnectedness.
Each of you has something
that you are very good at.
You work on this throughout
the many lives you take on.
Some take on many different areas
to become very good at ~
which means they have many more
lives to live than an entity who chose
only one area to be very good at.
Your study outside of
The Universal Consciousness
is in levels of understanding and
before you move to a new level,
you must bring closure to
the level you were studying which
gives you a beginning and an end.
It is a sense of concreteness and is
important to the strengthening of Self.
As you like what you are doing,
you become more successful at it ~
which brings about a respect of Self.
And as you begin to Respect Self,
you enjoy doing more of what you do.
You become more lighthearted ~
and, you Respect Self more because
it has become such a positive cycle.
Some of you start your journey with
Lightheartedness and the thread is there.
Some of you go through hundreds of lifetimes
and the thread is not there until finally you come
to the lifetime that Lightheartedness begins its threading.
You are on the earth plane to experience
~ to experience the experience ~
rather than to sit around and think about it,
unless, of course, that is your path and then
you can sit around and think about your path
of sitting around and thinking about it.
You can bring yourself into quite a little frenzy! :-)
Many seriously minded people think
about what they should be doing.
They think and think and never act ~
is it the right thing to do and are
they getting all the information ~
which is valid, for not acting is a path.
However, not acting means you are not
working toward Lightheartedness,
for it is only in the Action that
Lightheartedness can come.
Live your life and be aware of
what is going on around you.
You are here to be part of the
earth plane so enjoy it ~ revel in it!
Do not be concerned and think,
"Am I doing the right thing
in terms of my path?"
If you are doing it,
it is part of your path.
You would not be doing it
if you were not supposed to be.
You are given only the information
that you need for this lifetime and will
not be given superfluous information.
And, while you may want to know
about a particular lifetime,
if it is not meant for you to know,
you will not be given it.
In order to Respect Self and Love Self,
you have to have NOT respected and loved Self.
To achieve the good you have to
go through that which is not good ~
from your perspective of what is good.